I was born in 1981, and discovered the Game at the end of 2007. I had a girlfriend at the time, but obviously I needed something. I always wondered why I wasn’t dating the women I found amazing, but mostly girls that I found OK and that could stand me 
so I set out on a journey to discover why, and to do something about it and live the life I always dreamed about! This blog contains accounts and reflections of my trip, the lessons, the glory, the passion, and the inevitable lows and roadblocks along the way.
My goal is to become significantly better with my self and consequently with women, to be able to express the value that I have into my life and to see the reflection of that in my surroundings. And I want to have a CHOICE, not end up with someone that chose me because I couldn’t get the one I wanted. I want to say ‘That one!’ and at least get to know her and see if it works out. I’m not against one-night stands but from experience I know that it won’t satisfy me for long. I’m looking for more meaning, not meaningless success, so one of my main goals is to share deep connections with people that are just as exhilarated by life as me! So far, I’ve met some superb people that have helped me along, you’ll find them here in the comments section. Feel free to contribute your thoughts and feeling, we all know by now that there is no one single answer to the questions of life and love so any insight has its place.
Welcome to the journey!
Phoenix River
