Check yourself

Some questions you may ask yourself when pondering the question why, oh why, aren’t you getting laid?

- Are you turning up at parties alone, with a gang of single dudes or with your crazy band of groovy brothers and sisters?
- Have you ever thrown a party that more than, say, twenty-five people attended? Did they dance, get drunk, and send you messages that it was the craziest party ever?
- Are you being invited to social events, and how often? By whom, close friends, relatives, strangers, your mom?
- Are you talking about ‘seduction’ more than you spend time jerking off?
- Do you even still undertake to talk about the act of seduction while going out? Kill it please – it’s not helping.
- Do you jerk off more than you talk to girls?
- Have you read more pages of material than you’ve talked to girls? I bet you have.
- Do you look and act like every other guy (even though in your head you though you were doing it different), or on the other hand, try so hard to stick out that it’s awkward?
- Do you delude yourself that that girl was checking you out? And more importantly, did you go up to her and ask her if she was?
- When was the last time you allowed yourself to talk to and like a girl without feeling you NEEDED to bone her or you’d be a total loser?
- When was the last time you had a relaxed, interesting conversation with anyone about something other than ‘social interactions’?

And so on – anymore of these? I love using these to check where I am.

xPR